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Re: Into my arms... #70 Kalni #1973372 04/02/10 05:30 PM
Joined: Jan 2010 Posts: 2,466 F flowmom Member
flowmom Member F Joined: Jan 2010 Posts: 2,466	Kalni, I'm so glad that there is good news about your Dad. Originally Posted By: Kalni Guys, if H only knew how happy he made a ton of people by actually "doing it"!! I am so happy for you Kalni! Your H did just the right thing by circumventing all the talking and thinking by ambushing you in your sleep. Originally Posted By: originally posted by BobbiJo Trust only movement. Life happens at the level of events, not of words. Trust movement. ~Alfred Adler me: 42 \| STBXH: 41 \| T: 18 \| M: 10 \| separation: Jan 3, 2010 \| they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.

Re: Into my arms... #70 flowmom #1973387 04/02/10 05:52 PM
Joined: Sep 2009 Posts: 1,531 L Lotus Member
Lotus Member L Joined: Sep 2009 Posts: 1,531	Kalni, So happy to hear that he initiated sex. Keep those speeding tickets coming! I hope you get to use that VS lingerie you bought recently!

Re: Into my arms... #70 Kalni #1973393 04/02/10 06:00 PM
Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 2,240 Oregon T TrentC Member
TrentC Member T Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 2,240 Oregon	Originally Posted By: Kalni Later in the night, he woke me up and he initiated sex. I was shocked and didnt have time to think about it which was I think positive. I am so happy for you, Kalni! Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement "Every day is another chance to get it right."

Re: Into my arms... #70 TrentC #1973495 04/02/10 09:14 PM
Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 10,261 K Kalni OP Member
OP Kalni Member K Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 10,261	Thanks guys, I didnt win the lottery, HE should be happy he got in my pants, not the other way around, dont you think? LOLOL Today he initiated (NOT sex) hugs and tender kissing (on my forehead) in front of my mom, in her presence. It wasnt anything special but it felt...tender and most of all genuine. For me it was BIg because my mom was there and although she couldnt see us, we were standing behind her, she could "sense" us. My S asked why dont I wear my wedding band. That little monster! I told him, dad has to buy me a new one, stating the new beginning and it should have diamonds... H gave me a exquisite candle for tommorow night and a pair of puma shoes. It is starting to feel as we are a couple. Till something else pops up! Happy Easter my friends! K Me&H:42 S11&D10 Bomb 5/2007-Sep 11/2007 Reconc.November 2009

Re: Into my arms... #70 Kalni #1973497 04/02/10 09:15 PM
Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 10,261 K Kalni OP Member
OP Kalni Member K Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 10,261	Lotus, the VS things are coming out from the drawers!!! I hope. Maybe he didnt like it, who knows? Maybe next time will be in 2012. At least now I feel I can initiate as well.... Me&H:42 S11&D10 Bomb 5/2007-Sep 11/2007 Reconc.November 2009

Re: Into my arms... #70 Kalni #1973519 04/02/10 09:46 PM
Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 9,848 Nor Cal, USA M MichelleLT Member
MichelleLT Member M Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 9,848 Nor Cal, USA	He is very lucky! So lucky you gave your M and him another chance, so lucky you ML with him. There will always be bumps in the road, but hopefully the sense of being a couple sticks around a while. Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2

Re: Into my arms... #70 MichelleLT #1973526 04/02/10 09:53 PM
Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 13,424 AZ V Virtually_Handsome Member
Virtually_Handsome Member V Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 13,424 AZ	I think it's big that he hugged and kissed you today. I could have seen a pull-back, and he didn't! That might be bigger than the ML!

Re: Into my arms... #70 Kalni #1973570 04/02/10 11:01 PM
Joined: May 2007 Posts: 5,927 calif D Dr LOve Member
Dr LOve Member D Joined: May 2007 Posts: 5,927 calif	Glad to hear about your dad AND.... "Later in the night, he woke me up and he initiated sex. I was shocked and didnt have time to think about it which was I think positive. It was weird. It was more a statement of "I find you attractive, dont want to hold back anymore and you are mine" WOW this is our year...I hope I am next...Well not with your husband...but maybe my wife........ Last edited by Dr LOve; 04/02/10 11:02 PM. And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know

Re: Into my arms... #70 Dr LOve #1973756 04/03/10 08:28 AM
Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 6,948 Iowa B BobbiJo Member
BobbiJo Member B Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 6,948 Iowa	Sigh....I wanna be part of a couple and wear vs for somebody besides myself! A little (ok a lot) jealous, but so very happy for you. I hope you have a very special Easter weekend, it started off well didn't it! And glad for your dad. Me-35 Together: 18 yrs M-12.5 yrs S-8 D-4 D'd: Feb. 2010 The LORD your God is with you, he is mighty to save. --Zeph. 3:17

Re: Into my arms... #70 BobbiJo #1974392 04/04/10 03:44 PM
Joined: Dec 2007 Posts: 9,762 GA M mishka422 Member
mishka422 Member M Joined: Dec 2007 Posts: 9,762 GA	Quote: Till something else pops up! STOP THAT! No forward thinking negativity ok? I hope your Easter weekend was fabulous and you are enjoying your family time. Much love to you K! T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!

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