I feel where you're coming from tbart. I had thought about the fact you aren't present with her going through this. I think in a way it makes it harder for you to mess up and really be clingy and needy. Oftentimes it's the initial behavior that causes a lot of damage which the WAS really focuses on.
So in that sense I think it was good you were away for the time you have been.
What you said wasn't corny at all. It's a good perspective to have.
Just keep focusing on you and put one foot in front of the other. No matter which way things go, you're a better person for it.
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