My IC, after all this time, felt she was either Bipolar II or BPD. STBXW denies this in all her legal documents. Water under the bridge.
My daugther is tough and I think she will handle this. My son, OTOH, I think is really going to have a rough time of this. As Bill knows for a long time now that I have a close R with him. We talk at night before bedtime. We have catches. I put my arm around him when we walk and we buddy it up. I know, that he is going to have trouble adapting in the beginning.
Funny thing. I don't hate STBXW. In spite of all the horrible stuff, I would still even prefer to work together. It's just not going to happen. Even yesterday, she changed a dental appt on me that I was going to go to and she didn't tell me. I ended up at the dentist's office, for the third time now, alone. Fortunately, I know the dentist and he fills me in.
It's a sad state of affairs when two people cannot function for the sake of two innocent children. You build a house together. You become intimate and create two lives together. You open door for them to find the life and happiness that they seek. Yet, they still feel the need to punish you.
FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
