((((Luv))) (I changed my screen name but you'll know who I am from my link in signature)

Whoah, honey, you are a strong woman. Your H is behaving badly- what the heck is he doing, falling down drunk, etc? He's lucky- for your kids' sake- that he didn't seriously hurt himself or someone else.

I can't imagine how you're feeling about the PI/OW. As much as we think we're ready to hear something, it can still feel like a sucker punch. You are staying so strong, I'm in awe- telling him he has to move out- phew, sounds like YOU will need a drink tonight wink Sorry, bad joke.

I'll be watching here for updates. Keep your chin up like you're doing already.

When the men on the chessboard
Get up and tell you where to go;
And you've just had some kind of mushroom
And your mind is moving slow;
Go ask Alice...
I think she'll know.