but then the rational side of me knows that the grass isn't always greener and that a new R/M does not mean a dissolvement of issues. It is just a clean slate to start accumulating them again.
That's what DBing is all about. Getting healthy and making healthy decisions for YOU first so you are able to make them about your M and don't carry them on into your M or future R/M
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am