SCH, Thank you I totally agree with your observations.
Just Journaling...
I think that I saw OW in a clothing store yesterday. Not sure if it was her, I'd only met he once more then 6 months ago. Looked much thinner and kind of sad...if it was her. I don't think she recognized me. It fits, her H said that she will be in town this week as he made an appointment for her to go and see a psychiatrist for a full "psych evaluation". So she is probably staying at WH's place. I think that the more time they spend together the better...reality will sink in faster? At least for her I hope. According to her H, she is a spoiled princess used to the "good life" and used to getting everything she wants. I'm not dwelling on them, honestly...right now I don't care what they do, I'm just observing.
Ever since I stopped "sharing" info with OW's Husband, he stopped calling...that confirms that he was just using me for ammunition.
WH sent me an e-mail yesterday that he would like to come and "help me" work on the house...yard...get house ready for sale. Easter Sunday & Monday. First I planned to have friends over for Easter Dinner, but daughter is sick - bronchitis, is on antibiotics and it's contiguous. Therefore not much Easter GAL for us. May as well work on the house with WH all Easter weekend .
Other then that, I'm doing pretty good. I'm starting to be more optimistic about the future (with or without him). What I couldn't even face a couple of months ago (selling the house and moving) I'm now ready for. I know that it will be an incredible amount of work, but I can do it.
My goal for next year is to re-gain some of my house equity that will be lost after separating our finances and paying off all joint debt.
In a year my daughter is going to start university, so I think that at that time I would like move us closer to it (only 50 miles or so but real-estate is even more expensive there then here) so she doesn't have co commute or pay for a dorm. So that leaves me a year in here until she finishes High school.
I'm hoping to buy a larger house with a separate suite that I would rent out (to help with mortgage). A house that needs some updating (I'm good at that...have done it before) to increase it's value and hopefully make some money on it when I sell in a year. Will see, it all depends on what I can sell my house for and if I find the "right" property to improve.
Happy Easter Everyone
Last edited by Mila; 04/02/1006:14 PM.
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
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