"Sometimes you just gotta ride the horse the direction it's going"
You may have heard that b4. Sometimes, fighting the direction that things are going does not produce any tangible results even though the direction that you are being taken is not where you'd like to go. In all that I've read in your threads here and elsewhere, you've come to a realization, perhaps too late, that you aimed some of your life where it is going. If I recall, you said that he moved out and then moved back and now you moved out. Can't find if you've moved back.
That brings me to the second aphorism.
If the horse is dead, get off. And your marriage may be a dead horse.
I note your profile name change
Captain
Hi Captain- I think you've gotten me confused with another poster on my thread. I didn't say I don't believe in uncondtional love (not sure if I do, actually), and no one has left the other person in my sitch. But your advice and insight are welcome and very interesting, as always.
When the men on the chessboard Get up and tell you where to go; And you've just had some kind of mushroom And your mind is moving slow; Go ask Alice... I think she'll know.
