Here's a link to the Oprah article. On the actual program, I know she was asking the direct question about whether they were prepared to die...don't see it on the list now though. Still think that's a good question:

http://www.oprah.com/relationships/Questions-for-Teens-Who-Want-to-Have-Sex

And for what it's worth, though you're writing a letter, I think you should sit down and have a face to face conversation. It's easier to blow off the questions if you never have to respond out loud to someone.

SD


Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!