Yikes - this is a lot to think about. I THINK that I've made it very clear that she does not have my "permission." I appreciate though that it appears that way. I've only tried to create an atmosphere of being open and honest about it all. I am pretty confident that "it" hasn't happened yet, just as I am confident that nothing I can say will STOP her from doing anything. I will be sitting down to draft a letter to my D about my position and what this all means.....including the points raised by SDFG....and btw she is 16, bf is 17..........
Me 45 M 25 yrs; T 31 yrs;bomb 8/15/06; moves out 7/18/08 D 18, D 14, S 12
