Just a thought here...OIN is your W doing her own 180's from how she would respond to you in the past?

If so, she may be acting the way she is because she THINKS she's getting a 'better' response from you (as in you being nicer/more understanding) than before.

Does she feel the 'need' to be b*tchy to get that 'nicer' response from you?

Therefore, the flip/flop attitude?

Did you make an issue of her sleeping patterns or shower habits in the past?

Just a thought....

M55
H55
my D31
H D30 1st met her when she was 25
M 22yrs...2nd for me, 1st for H
OW 2005 mother of H daughter, came back to introduce D
1bomb 6/05
2bomb 7/08
3bomb 2/10 moved up north