She Say's She Want's Out Of The Marriage

[steady]

tbart, things like this will make you wonder. It will make you feel. You will see her treating everyone else better than she is treating you.

You have to let it hit you and deflect off. If that can't be then absorb it and dump it here.

The less reaction you show her to what she is doing (short of standing up to disrespectful or inappropriate behavior) the better off you are going to be.

Best case - she sees a strong man who is already moving forward. He is not desperate to have her in any way shape of form. He has his life and friends and is building himself a very good life. He is positive about his future and confident his life will be awesome.

He wants his M to work out, but does not need it to. He wants to be with his W, but he doesn't need to. He shows no reaction to her talking to other people, going out with friends, changing her clothing or her going out habits (unless they impact the family in a negative way).