She's abandoned our co=friends that she knows have shown me support.
This is typical. They build themselves a team of people and information which will support their position. Anything which presents something counter to what they want is rejected and ejected.
That's why I said she would see the DR book as a reason to leave you. She will find the parts in the book that she can twist to support her position, and she won't even see the other parts.
When I say she won't be able to see it, I mean literally see it. She would read the words but they wouldn't register in her mind.
They rationalize all kinds of things.
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