DU listen to Eric. Lots of good advice.

Please don't give up on YOU... you are a wonderful, sensitive, lovable person. Lots of people love you and care for you and would be devastated if they lost you. There is much happiness in store for you in the future, you must believe that.

Whatever your WH is doing or saying right now - it's not about YOU it's about him...he is the one with a problem. You need to be the strong one...love him from a distance and let him go for now. In MLC that's what they need to do...they need to leave first, if they are to come back.

If you really love him...let him go. That's the most loving thing you can do for him right now.

Focus on the things you can control: your attitude, your behavior, your words, and your energy. If you want something to change in any stage of a relationship, make it your own traits or actions – not your partner's.

Remember, you've been in a "dark place" before and then you felt much better again. Things are never as bad as they seem...tomorrow will be a better day again. That's just part of the rollercoaster of emotions we are all on.

Believe in YOU, believe in Love...I KNOW that you are much stronger then you feel at the moment. If you can't cope right now by yourself...please reach out for help.

Destiny I believe in YOU !!!!!!

((((hugs)))))


M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO