Hello jt- If you are looking for a place to connect with others that are going through the same thing, you found it. This is a place to find sanity through out this crazy ride. Keep reading and posting. I know it was my life line in the beginning.
This is time to focus on yourself and your kids and this board can help you do just that.
Here are some things that you could start working on...
-Figure out how to become a better person. Eat better, exercise, learn something new, be the best mom you can be, find understanding of what your H is going through, etc.
-Spend this time reflecting on what you could have done differently in your marriage. That doesn't mean that you take the blame. None of us are perfect but we can always try to improve. This will help you if your M is restored or if you eventually find a new R.
-Find yourself again. Figure out what makes you happy and what you want for the rest of your life.
-Reconnect with family and friends. Start rebuilding your life "as if"...
-Focus on your kids. They need to know that both parents love them and are there for them even if they aren't together.
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But I dont know if this is realy him now or if its just a phase.
This is a metamorphosis of sorts. I am no expert but from what I have seen, this could be who your H is from now on, he could go back to his old self but more than likely he will be a combination of both personalities.
This isn't an easy journey but when you make it to the other side, you will find that you are a stronger better person for it.
