The majority of the time she asks for the phone and I hand it over. I have nothing to hide. She is paranoid that I would stray (is that not a good thing? or else why would she care?). Other times my phone is just lying there and she picks it up, which I also have no problem with. It is NOT LIKE I hide my phone and she finds it or the phone is in my pocket and she grabs or the phone is in my hand and she snatches it.
That's not the impression I've been left with as I've read your exchanges, and I've read all of them. Perhaps I'm wrong.
You seem to make a lot of excuses for your wife's poor and boorish behavior, in my opinion.
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If I stop her from viewing my phone, then she thinks I do have something to hide.
That's her issue, not yours. I have no problem with a mutually-agreed-upon plan of MUTUAL TRANSPARENCY, but I don't think you should allow her to snatch it whenever she wants to -- online, detailed billing, with a copy of the billing going to her should suffice. The way she's doing it now is accusatory and disrespectful -- again, just my opinion, from what I read when you describe the exchanges.
