WAW and the law of attraction

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I think the problem with the A, as Kim says is that it's ultimately a one person's decision.

This is what I mean.

When we both moved abroad, it was very stressful for her and she put on lots of weight. I never criticised her because I knew weight, has always being a big issue for her. I didn't find her attractive at the time but I never made her feel bad. I started starting organizing jogging sessions, etc as if it were for me and she decided to join.

At that point, I could have said, f*ck it, we just married and she lets her self go. I'm going to look for another woman. But I didn't. It would have been so unfair for her, right?

I feel the same way now. For the past year I've been depressed, I had to work a lot to get a job and keep it (I was on weekly/monthly contracts) and it has been very stressful. I succeeded in supporting both of us while the recession. It was tough. Now, she's got a job and life was supposed to go back to normal. Oh but she didn't see any of that.

She saw a man she didn't like anymore. Stressed, depressed, ill.
So she made her decision. She found another man. With a wife and two kids.