addie...this morning I took the time to cruise through all your new thread opening posts.

First off, I wish to offer you my sympathy on the recent loss of your father. I hope you find comfort in the good memories you had with him and knowing that other people here care for you. Stay strong.

Next, I wish to say that I am impressed at how well you have 'DB'd' throughout your entire sitch. You've handled everything so, so well...from setting boundaries, to detaching, etc. You should be able to wake up in the morning and like what you see in the mirror.

Lastly, I second what everyone said here and what one of my IC's told me: never make a major decision when under stress or depressed (not that you are per se).

Get through your current sickness and grieve the loss of your dad.

Supporting you.

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;