OK, have had NC with H since he last proposed us reconciling.
Is that OK?
I don't think anything has changed, has it?
We can "date", but we were dating a short while ago, and the issue was if he would get a job in our city or if we would go to live in his city (once the house was sold, schools changed, etc etc). But THEN, he said he didn't want us living in his city. And he had no job in our city.
So NOW, he is still not suggesting that we work towards living in his city. Nor does he have a job in our city (though he says he might be able to get one within 2 years, the same as his timeline to France!!).
Remember, there is no soulmate OW. The OW is the other city. He wants to live in other city, and have us too.
Nothing changed, did it? Did he just rephrase the same old story, or do you see anything different.
I know he wants to know if he should just move on now, or work towards things, but is there anything here for me to work towards, or same old story?
