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[Mach1]

I will leave her be until she's ready to contact me.

Sounds like a good plan D....

How the heck are YOU ?

We need to grab a beer again sometime...

[D Money]

D - If I missed something, sorry, but what was your W referring to when she said that she was done?

I don't know exactly. That's her terminology that she uses when she's given up. I get the feeling that she feels everything is hopeless.

[D Money]

Sounds like a good plan D....

How the heck are YOU ?

We need to grab a beer again sometime...

I'm doing great. I've made some changes in the past couple of weeks that have me looking at life in a different light. I'm getting to enjoy my kids collectively as well as individually. THey are each really amazing people.

Definitely on the beer

[Cadet]

I get the feeling that she feels everything is hopeless.

Not to speculate but maybe she is in depression stage and out of replay.

[D Money]

OP

That is what I'm thinking MAY be happening but I'm keeping my expectations in check and just watching waiting to see what happens.

[seeking answers]

D, those were my thoughts too about your W being in depression stage. Does she say she's done often, or just lately?

[D Money]

Just lately. And she has never admitted that she's having a hard time and needs to be alone.

[seeking answers]

Good plan to remain detached but watchful.

[Cadet]

Of course I forgot that she had 5 OM's so it could just be OM withdrawl. But all you can do is watch the movie and eat some popcorn.

[D Money]

My wife is all over the place. I dropped the kids off at her place and she was CRABBY. She was drinking last night. The monster was out today for sure.