And if he didn't have a demanding career, she would call him a bum. You can't win this when they start looking around to have an A.
They make up the most repugnant sh!t about their spouses to match what the "love chemicals" are telling them so that they can rewrite history, continue lying, trashing, etc. Repulsive!
I had a very demanding career, working nights for years, and my h KNEW IT! He pursued me anyway, told me how strong, independent, desirable I was, yadda, yadda...and then....once we were married.....
HE GOT PISSY, SAID HE WAS LONELY, AND ASKED ME TO QUIT MY JOB!!
Oh, yeah, THAT would have been a good move.
So please, stop saying that it's never just one person's fault. In more than a few cases, it most certainly IS!
