Hi K, Sorry to hear that your dad is not doing well. I know what that's like.
OTOH, I am so happy that ML FINALLY happened for the two of you and that it wasn't a negative experience. H and I have had our best sex ever since we started Piecing. At the same time, I've also had many feelings of resentment towards him due to ML. Don't be shocked if this might happen. In the meantime, ENJOY!!!
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz