Last week, STBXW texted me that she met with the family counselor who told her it was time to talk with the kids about the impending separation. I told her that I would prefer to meet with the counselor first. I met yesterday with her and with the kids. For the first time in awhile, I sorta liked the session.
FC: "FIB, you'll meet someone again."
She suggested that I take the kids to How To Train a Dragon. Which I did afterward. Had a nice evening with the kids.
Then, today's texts:
STBXW: Since you got to speak with Dr. X yesterday its time 2 talk 2 the kids about the move and living arrangements. They are confused
Me: Dr. X will see u next week then I believe she is going to break with us until we split
STBXW: That didn't answer my question (I know it didn't)
Me: Feel free to talk with them
STBXW: She said its best 2 do it together. Why do you have a problem with that?
Huh????
Huh????
How do you expose your inner feelings in front of your children with a person who called the police on you twice? Pushed to have you arrested for contempt of court?
No. I choose to talk with our children in peace...by myself. Does anyone here see fault in that?
Thoughts?
Thanks.
FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
