I don't believe in unconditional love... that is ridiculous and fantasy movie stuff!
Nor is there ANY requirement that you believe, accept, or embrace unconditional love as a concept or a reality. You might not know what it looks like, you might not know how to express it, or more importantly it might be more important to you that you don't express it.
However, your statement also presents you with a pretty big challenge. Which means if you are told that you are loved unconditionally, you are now on the record as telling that person that they are a liar. Oh, you might not say it directly (another lie on your part).
However, your position really leaves you two places to go. You don't believe in love at all or you believe only in conditional love. You love or can be loved if, and only if, certain conditions are met. Call it a quid pro quo for something that looks like love (to you). A quid pro quo for sex is a legal distinction.
The Captain
Last sex: 04/06/1997 Last attempt: 11/11/1997 W Issues "No Means No" Declaration: 11/11/1997 W chooses to terminate sex 05/1998 I gained 60, then lost 85 pounds. Start running again (marathons)
