I would think the first time would always be a bit different. (I know it was for me anyhow). It is a break in the ice for sure. I really don't know that it would be the most passionate just because there is tentativeness on both sides. So glad he made the first move.
Does your H always speed? If not maybe he was racing home to you.
hugs, kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
