I really WANT my M, but everything about this is HOPELESS. I have so much regret and remorse. I know my H is treating me badly and SH$$, it HURTS! He is NEVER going to CHANGE his mind, he is checking in for duty on the 30th of this month and will continue to be stateside until late May 2010. There is nothing my lawyer can do to give both of us more time to think and to cool off. Maybe I need another L, not sure.
My H is protected from suit by the Soldiers and Sailors Civil Relief Act (SSCRA) precludes a person in the military from being sued for divorce or otherwise when they are unable to vindicate their rights in court (but it DOES NOT protect the spouse who is back in states). However, because my H is stateside until May 2010, it will be difficult to stop the LS from moving forward. Once this is in place (if my L is unable to delay it), my husband only has to wait 6 months before filing to D me.
So I am UPSET because everything is benefitting him even though HE LEFT me and I did NOT agree and wanted to work on the marriage.
Time is NOT on my side and I have no faith that God wants my M to survive and be reconciled.
OLD THREAD-http://tinyurl.com/y98nuty Me 44 H 51 T 15 yrs M 9+ yrs No Kids "You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment unless you trust enough."
