A repeating pattern for you two it seems. Peace settles in, you reach out in a positive way to each other, she responds negatively at some point sending each of you in your separate directions.
Of course, if you find yourself able to see the bigger picture and thereby remove your personal feelings from the matter, I'm sure that goodwill is being earned by these visits.
And if you are not able...then you should not do.
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."