tbart01 - i know you are right, but it is easier said than done. And I know I could never trust her again after all this has happened. And you are right about it probably happening again. Once a cheat always a cheat. If she cheated on me with him, she will end up cheating on him with someone else.
I know I need to put myself out of my misery and walk away, but damn it is harder that I ever thought it would be. Too many what ifs floating around in my thoughts.
So I guess I should just suck it up, move on and don't look back.