Originally Posted By: mudpuppy
Sorry, but another question.

Paperwork for D has been started. She wants me to get an apartment/house now and get out before anything is final. Should I ever consider doing this. Or just tell her that this is my house too and I am staying until the end.

Talk to a lawyer. My lawyer advised me to stay in the house until there was a written agreement in place. That's what I did. Often when you move out they can get you for abandonment and end up causing all kinds of grief for you.

My W would continually tell me to leave. I would just look at her and say, "This is my house and these are my children too. If you want out, then you leave."

I'd seek legal counsel on this before I made any move. Also, I would tell her to leave because she's the one that is wanting a D.


MySitch
Me-47
STBXW-41
D-5
S-8
ILYBNILWY-01/08
Want a D- 01/09
Physical Sep-01/10
D filed-06/10
Got 50% custody=09/11
Ride that wave!