Ugh. Kind of nuts. Was going to take the kids to Six Flags today, but one of them was sick, so did some running around to re-supply the house. Entertainment stand, kitchen knives, flatware, can opener, garbarge can, all that stuff that W took.
Anyway, she's has been sick all week after the move, she tends to get sick after she is exposed to dust. So, nice guy that I am, I offered to pick up a cable modem / wireless router for her, I stopped by her apartment, hooked up the DVD player properly (she was watching it in black and white since she couldn't figure it out).
I told her I was going to put together the furniture, etc. and that the boys and I were going to watch a movie tonight, and she asked if she could join us. I said OK. She asked if I had gotten food, because she hadn't had the chance to shop.
Sure.
So, here's kind of what happened.
When she arrived, I said I had some leftover pizza that she could have.
Then she asked, what are the boys going to eat, and I said that it's 4:30, I wasn't ready to make dinner. And then she says, I thought we were doing dinner and a movie, and I said - no, we're watching a movie tonight. Then she start going on about, "why am I here?" and I said, well, you invited yourself over...
So, OK, fine, I can start making dinner... so I started making the pasta I had bought, and the boys said why can't we have pizza like mom? And then she says, I'm not going to sit here and eat pizza in front of the boys if they can't have any. So, fine, I heated up the rest of the pizza for the boys to eat PRIOR to them eating dinner.
Then she gets on to me for buying whole milk instead of non-fat (I'd actually bought it for myself since I'd lost so much weight), and that I'd bought a bag of chips that one of the boys had asked for. And she said that seeing me unpack all the new stuff I'd bought to replace what she had taken made her feel like crap. Then finally she says, this is too soon, I'm uncomfortable, I'm leaving.
And all I can say to this is a big WTF?
Oh yeah, and she asked why I'm so inflexible.
Well, probably not a good idea to do that again.
I wish she would just get it. I really, really want to rip into her but I'm trying hard not to.
