I do need to stop worrying about the h so much and what he is doing. I agree 110%. I have got to let go and let what is going to happen, just happen. I can't change his mind or make him get help for his depression. This is just so darn frustrating. If he wants to be miserable and not get help that will have to be fine with me.
M 35, husband 35 M 10 Limbo 9/2009-12/2010 he left for his moms and came home way to many times to count Home 12/2010-present
