I'm kinda upset at STBXW after her email so maybe my logic is flawed:

1. Utility bills - changing to my name is the plan but I want her to say it. Anything she wants to change because of her moving out she needs to come out and say it so she has a sense of what she's doing to both me and DD.

2. Visitation - I suppose her schedule could work too but I'm not here to agree outright to everything she says that suits her agenda. I want to question it before I agree. I'm almost certain she's doing it so the schedule matches the other family that lives there so they can plan out their weekends in advance.

3. Yes she's in kindergarten, she's 5.5yo. She goes to a private day care school for kindergarten. They're not that strict about it.

Thanks for your guys comments!! I'm not even sure why I'm upset maybe because she's got her life all setup by surrounding herself with roommates and friends that support her agenda while I have to pick up the pieces and try to put my and DD's life back on track alone.

Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6
Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks
Aug 2006, left again
Apr 2007, filed for divorce
Dec 2007, reunited
Mar 2010, moved out, filed again