[quote=robx] But there is more to love and marriage than just chemical attraction, my friend. If it was as simple as flipping a switch to be with someone, would your respect and trust them enough to marry them?
How do you think you got involved with your spouse? Is attraction a conscious decision? You can't choose what you're attracted. You can have several women in front of you, all different but physically attractive in their own way but you will only be physically attracted to few of them - not all of them, your brain tells you what it likes and you follow, not the other way around.
There are several switches that get flipped, not just one but the simple fact is, you don't get to choose who you're attracted to, it happens. Some can choose to resist those urges and other will choose to NOT resist those urges.
