I hear the term "chemicals" thrown about loosely, "she has those in love chemicals and it's clouding her brain", she once had those "in love chemicals" for you too, until you did things which killed the attraction between the 2 of you, aside from busting the affair what will your plans be to start flicking those attraction switches in the opposite direction?
Those chemicals & feelings are not fake, they're real. You contributed to this regardless if you know it or not.
Sure....no one is without sin. But what I am referring to is what state a WAS is in once they get the high of an affair.
if we're talking about an actual physiological change in the body, why does it matter what "state" the WAS is in? If you kill the attraction with your spouse to the point where they are no longer attracted to you and someone else comes along and flips those attraction switches, you're as much to blame on the situation as the "love chemicals", don't expect those marriage vows to keep her in line. If the number of threads on these forums with WAW's is any indication, those words have little value and staying power.
