WAW and the law of attraction

[WalkingMan]

I hear the term "chemicals" thrown about loosely,
"she has those in love chemicals and it's clouding her brain",
she once had those "in love chemicals" for you too,
until you did things which killed the attraction between the 2 of you, aside from busting the affair what will your plans be to start flicking those attraction switches in the opposite direction?

Those chemicals & feelings are not fake, they're real.
You contributed to this regardless if you know it or not.

Robx,

I'm sorry but the blame rarely lies on one person, either the LBS or WAS.
Sure....no one is without sin. But what I am referring to is what state a WAS is in once they get the high of an affair. Like I said, it takes two to make it work and two screw it up, so putting the blame solely on the LBS helps no one. Unless I'm mis-reading your post, you seem to make the LBS totally responsible for the WAS behavior.