Is this piecing?

[pearlharbr]

Wow, thanks for this convo Cyrena and HFL. BF and I just had yet another argument about him inviting people over without telling me. I hate having people over without having the house at least picked up.

My parents' house was / is a disaster. I could never have friends over, nor would I have wanted to. I was super messy too, all through college and afterwards. BF is very neat, grew up in a super clean and neat house. Seeing his parents' house the first time totally freaked me out.

I think part of my issue stems from that and part of it is that since I don't work I think people will judge me if my house isn't spotless all the time. After all, it is my job to clean, right?

Very interesting.