Found out today on online court site that my husband did file for divorce. We met through friends and dated long distance, he is west african I am american. We dated for 3 years and went there to marry. We married in 2006 but he came here in 2008. Our marriage was hard and we fought but there was love but the stress causd meto gain so much weight and sex was les and lessand found out he was online dating stringing women along.He said it was due to depression of our marriage I was so angry and told a lot of friends instead of working on things with him. Anyways we fought fought fought and he has face reprocussion in our church but he is willing to face that. So my question is....i still may want to see if things work out cause divorce is ugly. but i dont want to be railroaded by divorce. it tok a lot of money to get him to usa and all the immmigration fees and I want that back. he never really took care of me financially. it was the other way around. so if I fight for this it will probably kill any hope for reconciliation right? I dont want to be stupid anymore but still what if there is achance we can reconcile
