The latest with me

[ImprovedRomeo]

OK guys I need some input. So STBXW just sent me this email:


DD needs a couple things for school tomorrow-pack a lunch and an Easter basket for their egg hunt. If you don't have lunch stuff, let me know tonight and I can drop off a lunch for her tomorrow am.

I was also thinking about the schedule and wondering if we can switch to one where we have her the whole weekend and then do two and two from m-th. I scratched it out for April and we can keep two on two off until thu then you keep her fri-sun then me m-t, you w-th then me fri-sun etc. Let me know what you think.

DD also has 2 more pages of homework to finish tonight and I put the water bill in her homework folder for you.


Hmm...so I didn't know about the easter egg hunt at school and I was going to take her to legoland tomorrow. When I picked her up from school today I asked the teacher about the egg hunt and she said it'll probably be like a 5min thing and lunch wise they had one last Fri too so it's no big deal. She said she'd be happy to save the eggs for her. So I'm thinking of still taking DD to legoland. I have two options, don't reply to her email tonight or tomorrow or reply saying 'I have tomorrow off so DD and I will be spending some time in San Diego'

As for the schedule...I think she's lining things up for her own convenience or how the other family that lives their has that arrangement. So I was thinking of replying with 'The current arrangement works for me but I'm open to trying the new schedule if I understand how it's better?' Since I only have the weekends to do all the house chores, shopping etc I like a day or so to do them and still see DD. It doesn't matter all that much to her if she wants to see DD whenever she can and does stop by her school sometimes even on the days I have her.

Water bill...hmmm I thought the money I've been giving her was partly to cover the utilities that have always been in her name. So I have a couple of options here. one I can tell her that or two just pay the bill or switch the names. And/or optionally stopy paying her the monthly allowance check?

I'm kinda pissed off at STBXW today so I need some suggestions guys.

Also as an aside I noticed DD was wearing a shirt with a big heart in the middle that says stuff like 'my dad is awesome, I love my dad etc' - I asked if DD picked it out, she said no mommy did...weird.