dday- I like what you say about being on life support- that is a good way to look at it...sadly- at this point I do selfishly want to keep W around...
I'm sure that will change- again good point about them being emotionally dead...def the way to look at it.
My dad tells me to think of W as being dead, that that's the only way to go about healing...it is hard though, knowing that she's not and that I may see her on the ave. or at a red light...
Hard to fathom someone just being a ghost- a living memory...but that is the reality.
I thank you for that analogy, hopefully I can trick myself into believing it.
