Thanks, Kat. This is the first time I've been around all week. Things are same-o for me. I've been doing some serious thinking about seeing a lawyer. I don't want a D but may not have many options at this point because of this mess H has made.

H and I had a serious talk last night about everything. It wasn't very optimistic. He offered to move out but I couldn't bring myself to say yes. Not right now. I am off to Disney World this week with my daughter. Her high school band is going and I am chaperoning -- can't wait! She is so excited and I don't want to spoil that for her. This trip will be a good break for me. Of course I will be worrying what H is up to while we're gone but that is out of my control.

I'll reevaluate when we return...