How to approach W about OM

[OfficerInNeed]

OK her is what happened...btw my parents live right next door lol...

Before I was able to read any of the responses I did go back, because I forgot part of my work uniform. When there she was on the couch and asked what I was lookinbg for so I told her. I left again and had the opportunity to read your posts.

Allen,
In our conversation earlier my W admitted that she was suffering from border lin depression. I thought about what you said about how she feels as if I react to her actions always making it seem like she initiated the problem.


I realized by leaving I was just repeating old patterns. I know I could have gave her a taste of divorce and wanted to but at the same time is it right for me to walk out and make her feel like her feelings don't matter? I went back... I said "I was sitting there and realized by me leaving was just repeating old patterns. What happened earlier was not your fault, I understand how you feel" she said "you can never understand" I replied "you are right"...

Earlier we had rented a movie so I asked "would you like to watch the movie" she said "if you would like" so I started the movie up and that's where we are now....

Should I leave after the movie and say "it would be better it I stayed there" ? Or stay?