What do you do.....?

[Savannah5]

I can't believe this has been going on for two months!

We've discussed reconciling but here's the problem: I'm in a REALLY good place being on my own right now. My life has finally settled down and I am once again excelling at work. Life is good and I question the sanity of wanting to invite XH back into my life. Although, I do think it is better for our children to be a "complete" family, it is not better for them to be in the midst of the craziness of infidelity. I guess I'm still on the fence... Trying to decide on good boundaries... What to do?? What to do?? Can I really ever forgive??

What have others done regarding family who now HATE X for what he/she has done?? That is a big problem for me. My parents absolutely despise him!