No longer sitting on the fence

[motherof3]

Kalni - There is no need to introduce yourself. I have been a silent lurker on you thread for quite some time now. Thanks for your input. I am glad that you have been dealt a second chance. I am cheering you on from the sidelines.

FM - Right now, co-parenting affectively is my #1 goal. Each day I get better at tearing down the 'awkwardness' wall that has been built up between H and myself. One brick at a time. After all, H and I will have a life time of seeing each other, like it or not.

Don't quit but be realistic. It's not easy to find that balance but someday we ALL will.

This is great! I like this. ^^^^

I am sorry a post I made, made you feel more hurt today. I understand how tough it can be. It is still tough for me from time to time.

CG - Don't be sorry. You don't have anything to apologize for. A sitch like this comes in a complete package: the good, the bad, and the ugly. It is easy to face the good things, hard to face the bad things, and even harder to face the ugly. Unfortunately, you can't have one without the others.