There are no quick fixes. Getting the R back on track is a long term goal. We set the WAS free, work on ourselves so we are not co-dependent and become happy WITHOUT them (or anyone else). We don't let other peoples stories of success of failure affect our path. We learn from others what character traits we want to change in ourselves and then do it.
Some days I am better at setting H free (in my mind and emotionally) than others. And yes this is going to be a long process. It takes time time. I have time, but I am certainly not going to sit around idle and wait.
Me & H: 33 yrs S: 4 & 6 D: 2 M: 9 yrs ILYBNILWY: 8/09 SEPARATED: 9/09 The Beginning
