I am the one that say IMO when a WAS says they are done most of the time they are done.
What I didn't say the work the LBS does is a lost cause. If you come out better than your life will be okay. Life might not be what you thought it would be you will be okay. And being okay is the first step in rebuilding a great life for YOU no matter what the WAS does.
CG - Don't get me wrong. I don't disagree with you in that odds are my M is over. I have read your advice all over this board and tend to agree with you the majority of the time and value your input.
In this case I agree with what you are saying 100%. The truth does hurt. It just wasn't what I wanted to hear at the time.
And yes, just because my M is over doesn't mean I have walked away from this sitch without learning a thing or two about myself. It is just too bad that it took this kind of wake up call.
Me & H: 33 yrs S: 4 & 6 D: 2 M: 9 yrs ILYBNILWY: 8/09 SEPARATED: 9/09 The Beginning
