As I mention earlier we got a new bed set lol. We were setting up the bedding and she made the comment "I am taking my pillows into the other room I am going to sleep there" I walked out the room and said "if that's where you feel most comfortable"
When I came back in she was laying on the bed... She got up and started to dress her pillows and I said as a joke "that new pillow case is not going to match the old bedding" and laughed. She threw the pillow case left the room and started to clean the other room.
I apologized and said "it was a joke I did not intended to offend you" she started to say "just like everything else in the past 10 years you do something in response to something I did WRONG right? I am just trying to live in the same household with out stress until I leave, I am counting down the days" I told her I would go stay with my parents until then.
She got upset and said "you'll make matters worse if you do. I don't wnt them in my business" I said "how is that any different from what you shared wuth a co-worker?" She said "that was my business not your, you put me through that and I confided in that person and trusted him" I said "there are professionals you go to who can listen" she said "yeah they're called divorce lawyers...I wake up every day miserable" she went on and somewhere is there I said "if you strongly feel that way, there is the door" (oops).
In the end I grabbed something and she asked what I was doing - said " going to stay with my parents, I think its for the best" she said "whatever" I then said "I know what you are saying about me leaving to my parents will only make it worse but I can't see how it can be any better if I stay" and I left.
M: 27, W: 25 Together since: 01/31/00 M: 10/4/09 (8 Months) ILBNILWY: 01/24/10 EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted). Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10 Retrouvaille: 09/10/10
