I talked to the wife on the phone for the first time in about three weeks. She apologized for "ruining everything and throwing it all away." I told her we could have worked everything out if she hadn't been so wrapped up in OM.
We talked about divorce, but she also asked if I wanted to try dating. Don't know how I feel about that. I'm about ready to move on, and she pulls this? I told her I couldn't date someone who I'm married to, especially if their heart wasn't in it. She asked if I wanted to be separated but not divorced. This seems like a worst case scenario, still bound to her but not with her.
We're talking again face-to-face next week. I really don't even know what I want at this point.
