I'm sorry to hear this. I'm sure you are shocked and in a lot of pain. However, remember these are just papers and they don't necessarily mean things are completely hopeless. He may just be reacting in haste. Have you read any of the DB or DR books? You should get them, not only will they give you some insight as to how you might be able to still save the marriage, but they also will help make you a better person and feel better about yourself. I know this is a very difficult time for you and everything looks very dismal, however will be better days ahead. ((((Veronica))))