Originally Posted By: june72
I'll be blunt- actual intercourse is like the icing on the cake


Continuing directly blush ...so if she's screaming (honestly, that is!), doesn't that mean she's "done"? I'm doing the foreplay and I think it's well received - 5+ minutes, but, blush , is there a way to know if there is something else good that just happened without asking her? I've been experimenting, but she's the one running to the intercourse part almost everyday. If I'm really too wiped and suggesting just touching, she feels offened. I think part of that is the fear that if she doesn't do it well enough I'll find myself on porn again, but she's said that she needs more.

BTW - thanks for the advice!