The MC and she didn't hear the phone for the text. I think it was an honest mistake. She is trying to regain control of things though. Today more phone calls. I think she has called more the past few days that the past couple of months combined.
That tells me, she either had it set to vibrate, or set to silent mode, the MC wouldn't have heard it either way.
Through the phone calls she's really trying hard to see where you stand..and you're NOT where she left you; that DOES have her unbalanced for the moment....and that NEEDS to happen for her.
She does NOT need to have you in the place you once were any longer..the only way she's going to realize she's possibly losing you is for you to stay mysterious, keep moving around in ways she's not seen before.
It sounds like a game, and in a way it is...it's poker, chess, a battle/war for control/dominance; but it can't last for too long, as she's got a choice to make.
The wedding band going off and coming on, signifies her hard time making a solid choice...try and ignore that, if possible, as honestly, the ring means nothing in the greater scheme of things...if the feelings aren't there or materialize, the ring doesn't mean a thing.
You're right, you WILL make it through this, no matter how it comes out.
I'm fairly sure she has a good idea of how much you've been hurt, but in MLC fashion, her justifications at this time, outweigh her guilt...the wall/house of cards she's built will fall later on, I can only hope it's sooner than later.
Continue to wait and watch, fielding calls as necessary..staying detached as she has to do this on her own with NO help from you.
You'll know when it's time to begin to bridge the gap between you, she will give a definite sign you will NOT miss as it will be clear for you.
Keep us posted.
Remember, as each person is different, every MLC/Transition is different..what works for one may not work for another. Most of the time it is trial and error for ALL involved.
