Thanks Bluestar. ML was instrumental in busting the D the last time so I was not as upset about it as some here are. I have been thinking back and he was definitely not comfortable with it the first or second time, probably up to the dozen-th time... but eventually he told me it helped keep us connected on some level. And it was worth it just because of what he said - about not wanting to lose me - that was worth it because now he may think twice about what's going on.
